You might think the title means I'm going to show you how to get an 'easy life', far from it. In my view there is no such thing as an 'easy life', all lives come with their own challenges, its how you deal with them that is important. The one lesson I'm learning is that rewards, in whatever form you manifest, come from being yourself. I am at the point where my 'Angels' put thoughts and words in my head and it is behoven on me to 'voice them'. Now this is where it gets difficult, sometimes these words and actions are not 'received well' by others, especially where they are used to you 'being another way'. For the man or woman who has always been a 'people pleaser' to suddenly start to voice their 'wants and desires' to a partner who has 'always had their own way' is difficult. But I am learning that if they are a decent person they will do their best to compromise, accommodate and thus grow.
So, listen to those voices in your head, I've learnt that sometimes they just want you to 'hear them and their opinions' sometimes frankly quite 'distasteful' opinions, but in my view they don't necessarily change in going over the other side. I'm beginning to realise that if we have not listened to them whilst they were here they 'just become louder' once over the other side. So, to qualify a little that that I have said above, if someone is telling you very loudly in your head that you need to tell the other person they are ugly or overweight then 'choose your words carefully' 'lest you offend' because words can hurt, despite the 'sticks and stones' rhyme of our youth and can't be taken back and can do irreparable damage to any future relationships because 'elephants don't forget'. But remember, good things come to you when you are yourself, however hard it is for those around you to accept the 'new/old you'. And for those starting down the road of new relationships be yourself, show your 'true colours' and for those growing, keep growing, be kind to those who are not either from fear or stubbornness (or a bit of both) for they may well 'get there yet'.
Sending you love, light and healing in the name of Jesus. Mandy xxx
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